The “Hollaback Girl” popstar spoke frankly about some of the fears that she’s had in her relationship with Blake Shelton, but they have open conversations to show their love.

We’ve all experienced moments of overthinking in relationships, and even Gwen Stefani is no exception. The 54-year-old pop star candidly discussed her insecurities in a recent issue of Nylon magazine, released on Tuesday, April 9. Gwen confessed that these insecurities have at times affected her relationship and marriage with country star Blake Shelton, 47. In the article, she addressed and dispelled divorce rumors, emphasizing her deep love for Blake.

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Gwen revealed how past insecurities had surfaced in their relationship. “In my own relationship, even though I know the truth of what’s happening today, you still create drama in your own mind about your insecurities and what might happen. I was in that phase of the relationship with Blake and getting paranoid,” she shared with the magazine.

The singer admitted that she had been “questioning” some things, such as whether she was “getting older” or if she was still “cute.” Blake explained that they have candid conversations about the “insecurities” they harbor. “These are conversations that she and I have with each other: ‘Are you still going to love me when I’m old or if I forget who I am?'” he shared.

Gwen added that despite her “overthinking,” she’s still “in love with my best friend.” She expressed no issues with Blake and directly addressed divorce rumors. “But when you’re in love and have truly aligned values, nobody can get to us. You can say whatever you want about our relationship — I mean, a week ago we were getting divorced again or something,” she told the outlet. “It’s just lies. The truth is the truth, and we know what that is. And so that [negativity] would never penetrate just by me being vulnerable and sharing a song [“Purple Irises”] that I didn’t write for anybody else but myself and Blake.”

Blake and Gwen have been married since 2021. They initially started dating in 2015 while working as coaches on The Voice.