Meghan Markle has never been close with Princess Kate, and recent revelations suggest that the Duchess of Sussex might have felt a deep sense of competition and jealousy towards her sister-in-law. Royal expert Ingrid Seward and relationship expert Louella Alderson provide insights into this complex dynamic.

In her debut memoir, Spare, Prince Harry described Kate Middleton as “the sister I’ve never had and always wanted.” This affectionate description highlights the close bond Harry shared with Kate, often seen together at Kensington Palace. Author Ingrid Seward believes Meghan was likely “incredibly envious” of this relationship.

Speaking to The Mirror, relationship expert Louella Alderson explained, “It’s likely that Meghan felt a sense of competition with Kate. She seems to have a competitive streak and enjoys being in the spotlight. The constant media attention and comparisons being made between the two women may have added to the feelings of competition. No matter how secure and confident one may be, being compared to someone else on a regular basis can be challenging. Kate is adored by the public, which may have caused Meghan to feel like she had to live up to a certain standard.”

Alderson suggested that Meghan’s sense of competition could have easily translated into jealousy, especially seeing Harry’s close relationship with Kate. “Seeing Harry’s close relationship with Kate could have triggered feelings of envy and insecurity for Meghan, making her feel like she had to compete for his attention and affection,” she added.

This dynamic of constant comparison and competition can create a toxic environment, making it difficult for a genuine connection to form between Meghan and Kate. “Constant competition and comparison with someone, especially when they are close family, can create a toxic dynamic and make it difficult for two people to have a genuine connection. It’s possible that Meghan’s jealousy towards Kate could have contributed to any deeper issues between the two sisters-in-law,” Alderson elaborated.

Ingrid Seward also told The Telegraph, “I think that Meghan must have been incredibly envious and then jealous of Kate. I heard Meghan actually thought she was going to be a princess and live in Windsor Castle. Instead, there’s William and Kate with this beautiful house, while they are stuck in Nottingham Cottage.”

The relationship between Meghan Markle and Kate Middleton is likely filled with nuances and complexities that the public may never fully understand. Both women have their insecurities and vulnerabilities, which could have affected their relationship. However, jealousy appears to have played a significant role in their dynamic.

In the end, Meghan’s revelations about her feelings towards Kate Middleton shed light on the challenges and pressures of being constantly compared to a beloved public figure. Despite these challenges, Meghan continues to carve her own path, standing firm in her belief in herself and her place within the royal family and beyond.